You can have a GOD-given desire, but the way you try to obtain it makes a huge difference. You could go about getting it illegitimately (on your own) or legitimately (allowing GOD to give it to you).

Allowing GOD to give it to you requires complete surrender. You have to trust HIS plans when you don't know the "how." It requires faith and letting go of your 'backup plan' aka, if GOD doesn't come through on my timeline, then I'll try to make it happen this way. Or, because I don't see how HE'S gonna do it, this is my best option.

GOD'S best includes HIS timing. When it's HIS divine timing, it will flow, and you will know that it was a beautiful set up by GOD, not your own doing.